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Abstract
HIV and domestic violence in the MSM domain
Y. Singh, M. Muttu
Issues: ‘Koti’, a self defined term, is a feminine construction of gender identity and the feminine identity of ‘koti’ is a reflection of both the effeminate demeanor of these men and the stereotypical feminine gender roles. ‘Giriya’ is a term given by ‘kotis’ to their partners and they are considered as masculine because they are non-feminine and macho in demeanor. In a ‘koti-giriya’ relationship, ‘giriyas’ are often guardians, breadwinners and hand over their salaries to their ‘kotis’ partners.
Description: Further exploring this relationship ‘control and power’ emerges as important characteristics. ‘Giriyas’ inflict violence on ‘kotis’ in the domestic setting of their relationship in various ways such as physical violence, control, emotional and sexual violence. The restrictions on partner by ‘koti’ can be well explained by understanding the prevalent fluid relationship among the ‘kotis’ and ‘giriyas’. This fluid relationship creates anxieties in the relationship resulting in possessiveness, which manifests in the form of violence. ‘Giriyas’ have sex with ‘kotis’ when he is not willing, refuse to wear condoms despite request from ‘kotis’ and even force ‘kotis’ to have sex with his friends and that too without condoms. These kinds of sexual violence perpetuate the spread of HIV among MSM and also possess risks for female partners of these MSMs.
Lessons learned: The ‘koti’ community needs to understand that violence in any form is not equivalent to masculinity but reinforces the regressive patriarchal values. The negotiation skills imparted to ‘kotis’ and also working closely with ‘giriyas’ has helped a lot in sensitizing them towards the issues and linkages of violence and HIV/AIDS.
Recommendations: In our intervention program, we have created a safe and separate space for both “koti” and “giriya” communities. There are open discussions on issues related to sexuality, violence and HIV/AIDS. The trainings on negotiation skills and condom usage are regularly imparted.
AIDS 2006 - XVI International AIDS Conference
Abstract no.
THPE0668
Suggested Citation
"Y.Singh, et al.
HIV and domestic violence in the MSM domain.
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AIDS 2006 - XVI International AIDS Conference:
Abstract no.
THPE0668"
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